About Want Change In My Life
Want Change In My Life is an allegory song about a man who is drunk, disturbed, violent, and abusive toward his wife and family. Deep down, the drunken man wants to change, but sometimes change comes too late. Trey Knowles uses the song as a mirror for domestic violence offenders, calling attention to abusive behavior and the need for accountability and change.
There Is No Excuse for Domestic Violence
Domestic violence can include physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological abuse; threats of abuse; and other patterns of coercive behavior used to influence or control another person in an intimate relationship. This can include behavior that intimidates, manipulates, humiliates, isolates, frightens, terrorizes, coerces, threatens, blames, hurts, injures, or wounds someone.
This behavior must stop. Those who commit abuse should take responsibility for their actions, apologize to the person they harmed, repent, and change their behavior. Abuse is not love.
Husbands, Love Your Wives
“Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.”
In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. No one hates his own body; instead, he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church.
Want Change In My Life calls on men to love their wives as they love themselves. If alcohol contributes to sinful, violent, or abusive behavior, remove it from your life and seek change. Alcohol is never an excuse for domestic violence.
“Let beer be for those who are perishing, wine for those who are in anguish!”
There is no excuse for domestic violence. Want Change In My Life by Trey Knowles is a call for accountability, repentance, love, and lasting change.